Category: Relationships


Ever since my son was born he has been a night owl. Throughout his public education days it was a major struggle to get him out of bed and to school on time. Once his got out of high school and went off to college I encouraged him to sign up only for afternoon and evening courses, which he did. Thankfully he managed to get through college that way.

Now, however, real life has hit and there are days when he just has to get up early and go to work. It is very difficult to change your sleep schedule around, and recent studies seem to indicate that it can actually be detrimental to your health to have to work rotating shifts. Fortunately for him, he does manage to get mostly afternoon work at his job.

The challenge that I am referring to at the beginning of this post is in regards to when he decides in the middle of the night to cook up something in the kitchen. He’s pretty quiet, but the smell of what he is cooking sometimes wakes me up. Once I’m awake I often find it is difficult to fall back to sleep. I think I need to ask him to refrain from cooking when I’m sleeping – just eat cereal or a cold cut sandwich. Let the mama get her forty winks in!

I have always like the looks of mixed metals. My favorite wrist watch is one that looks like titanium with a gold stripe running along the middle of the watch band.

Recently I was online looking at some titanium bracelets that my sister was telling me that she liked a lot and while I was browsing around I saw some pictures of black titanium rings that were supposed to be used for wedding bands. They really surprised me because I never would have thought to use black for a color for a wedding band! I don’t know why exactly, I guess it is just probably because I have never seen anyone use black for a wedding band color before.

I did see these rings to the left that I thought were quite handsome. I wouldn’t object to having one of these as a wedding band; having the two different color metals would make for a more versatile piece of jewelry. I like the polished bands better than the brushed one. Which do you like the best?

Have you ever been somewhere and have someone approach you that you know from someplace else and they think that they are being friendly and ask you when your baby is due – but you aren’t pregnant! That happened to me about twenty five years ago, when I was wearing a really bulky coat with a long scarf tucked inside. So I could see why someone might think that I was pregnant then. It was so funny – the poor guy was so embarrassed when I told him that I wasn’t pregnant! I had a really good laugh about that back then.

I saw on Facebook last night that Betsy (one of my co-workers) was in a different store shopping for groceries when one of our customers from where we work approached her and asked her when her baby was due. Well, Betsy is not pregnant. She was so upset! I tried to calm her down on Facebook, telling her that the guy was just an idiot and couldn’t help himself. But I have a feeling that Betsy will be spending extra time on the treadmill over the next couple of weeks!

All of the folks where I work use coupons. We all firmly believe that coupons are a great way to save money. There is a television show called something like “extreme couponing” that the other folks talk about frequently, but since I’m always working the night shift I have never seen the show.

Apparently one of the tips that the producers of the show pass on to the viewers is to organize your coupons in a large notebook binder that has plastic pages with pockets in them, like the pockets you would slide trading cards in and out from. And Becky has one of those big binders that she carries with her to and from work. She also brings the inserts from the weekend newspapers that have the coupons in them and clips them out and files them in the binder on company time.

When I see her doing that on company time I get really annoyed because the boss is usually grouching at me to do my job AND Becky’s job while Becky is spending several hours on her coupons. If it was a slow day at work that would be one thing, fine, go ahead and spend some time on the coupons. But when it is crazy busy and the customers are in line at all three of the counters and the orders still need to be counted and labeled it is really difficult for me to hold my tongue and take care of all of the work.

Last week that happened for about the fifteenth time and the customers were getting annoyed with how backed up we were and I was the one getting grouched at. The phone was ringing off of the hook and no one would even answer the phone! I asked Becky three times to please help me out and she totally ignored me. So I finally just stopped even trying to do anything more than wait on one counter of customers. I let the phone ring, the other customers that were waiting in line at the other counters I told them that I was sorry that they were going to have to wait until Becky was finished with her daylong coupon extravaganza.

A couple of the customers got quite upset over that and went to the front of the store and complained to the store manager. Within a few minutes the store manager came to the back and asked me what was going on. I just pointed at Becky and her binder and the huge pile of orders that needed to be counted and the long lines of customers and didn’t say a word. The manager said “I see” and started waiting on customers himself and told Becky that her break was over and to get back to work. She shot him a really dirty look, but she did put her binder away and went back to work. Before she left that day the manager told her not to bring her binder of coupons to work again; leave them in the car instead.

Today Matt came to work with two black eyes. When I asked him what in the world happened to him he told me that he had been in a fist fight with another guy over a girl. I just gave him my “thin lipped” look and shook my head. Matt seems to always be getting into trouble with his romantic interests. He doesn’t seem to respect the fact that when a girl is “taken” that means that he should keep his hands to himself.

Sometime that guy is really going to mess with the wrong guy’s woman, and end up in serious pain! I hope he smartens up before that happens, but I don’t think it will. He loves the ladies too much.